I am a gay man, when ds was born I was still with his mother but I found that marriage just wasn’t for me and I love getting railed, but something really shocking happened. I called him down to have our dinner and asked if he wanted to watch graham norton together, my son said he didn’t want to watch “this rubbish”, and called me an “annoying f*ggot”. I was shocked, I told him to eat alone. Later I discovered he called my husband a “bender” on top of this. What should I do?