I have twins. One adhd one with aniexty ocd and attachment,
They are out of control, one of them is sooo disrespectful and swears, shouts hits is violent, if I take anything off him, he shouts back at me saying next I'll take your phone your stuff off you..
I've tried everything it's embarrassing taking them out, I'm a single mum, when they go to there dads he's constantly on the phone to me saying I'm to soft and it's my fault..
I've been having coaching and she's made me feel like absolute shit, saying I should not take the stuff away from the. Boys instead find another way like saying I know your angry but hitting your brother or me is not ok.. which is fine but what is the punishment!!
I'm now sat on my bed crying in my own room well the boys are fighting in the other room..
I can't do this anymore I really can't..
I do everything for them an yes I do think it's my fault cause I spoil them,
There 11 and they are completely out of control, the have no respect for me at all!!
One of them if I tell him of he tells me to shut up women, go away, etc.. what am I supposed to do with that, the lady said to say that makes me really sad when you say that!
I have no family support.. I don't have many friends cause they won't come round with there kids!
What the fA@&k do I do now?