I am concerned. My friends DS is nearly six. He won’t sit at the meal table for more than a couple of minutes, sometimes it can take a couple of hours to get him to go to bed and he has toileting accidents often on the floor. Her husband says he is just playing him and his Mum up as he knows it will cause an argument. I have noticed that they didn’t start putting in boundaries until he was about four and maybe this could be the cause. Is it right to just blame the child? He is generally a delightful and well behaved child.