Anyone with older children?? I don’t know what to do anymore. My daughter is 12 almost 13 me and her father split 7 years ago and up until the last couple of years I’ve no issues besides him trying to get back and making drama but now my daughter literally resents me, she’ll hit me be disrespectful to me and to her brothers and just doesn’t care about anyone but herself and her dad, he will literally mess with the kids heads and tell them things like he’s going kill himself, and he’s doesn’t have anything and they’ll have to starve but buys McDonald’s and takeaways all the time and he just goes off on one at them and does nothing they need, there is no talking to him because in front of others he plays the nice person but behind close doors to my kids he’s bad mouthing me and everyone in the household and telling her things she doesn’t need to know about. She now refuses to do anything I ask or even go to school I don’t know what to do ? Any advice