I have 1 twin who seems to constantly need my attention and is dominating her sister (both girls, 3). She demands to have sole use of our trampoline, for example.
To diffuse the situation, she seems to need me to talk sweet nothings to her for a period of time. She seems insecure and this seems to relax her.
She is very demanding of my time. I feel sorry for the other twin - but she doesn't accept input if her sister is upset so I can't try and even it out. Her twin often gives her anything she wants - for example she prefers not to use the trampoline at all if she knows her sister is around and I can't persuade her to have a go.
Any advice?