I've been a long time member here. I have an older teenager and a 4yr old girl. I'm struggling with her attitude and whinging and tantrums. She's such a shy girl when it comes to anyone else but with me she's like the devil these days. I'm ignoring the bad and giving praise for the good. I'm making sure I spend one on one time with her too. I'm scared I'm doing it all wrong. She's screaming and shouting etc. tomorrow I'm going to start banning the iPad and deal with the consequences. Help!