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My 3 YO hates me

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dorris88 · 03/09/2021 07:58

Ok so the title is dramatic lol but that's how I feel.

She's going through phase atm but it's gone on longer then any phase before 🥴 where she doesn't want me to do anything with her - always dad.

She says she doesn't love me; she says she doesn't want me to put her to bed; bath, literally anything. I have Fridays off and it's 'mummy & DD day' she usually loved Fridays, now she doesn't want them.

My DH says and I KNOW it's true, she's in a boundary pushing, reaction poking age, but I won't pretend it doesn't feel like a punch to the chest 😂!

My sister says I need to get thicker skin, but how?

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stripedino · 04/09/2021 15:16

It hurts, but I just repeat " even if you think I'm the worse mum in the world, that's ok, I still love you with all my heart " etc and constantly reassure, turning mean words into supportive phrases like the above. Worked for us, DC sees they are not getting anywhere. Remember we always hurt those we love the most.

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