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Very demanding 10 year old

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Tereo · 19/08/2021 17:41

Any tips on dealing with a very demanding child? Sometimes it feels like communication with 10 yo Dd is constant demands, she might make 10 demands by lunch time - stuff to buy, activities to do, friends to meet . Her older brothers ask for nothing. She s definitely got worse over last 18 months.
I don't give into the demands but it doesn't seem to be helping.
Today for example I went for a walk with a friend and our kids. Half way through the walk Dd starting whining that her head was sore and she wanted to go home. I told her we were on our way back to car and we d get home then but she just wouldn't stop. Ended up in tears, I think she genuinely believed her head was sore (I didn't believe her she was fine as soon as she got home - in recent months she s often made up an ailment to get out of something.)
Another example, took her and friends for a walk yesterday. Everyone happy until she said they were thirsty and asked for soft drinks. I said no they could get a drink in 15 minutes when we got home(they'd already had ice-cream) . She wouldn't let up, kept on and on at me in front of her friends.
I did bring this up with her later and she didnt seem to see the way she was acting wasn't on.
Any tips?! How do I get my lovely daughter back!

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BunnyRuddington · 20/08/2021 09:38

Seems totally like my DD at that age. She's a teen now and I still carry snacks and make her carry a water bottle just to try and stop some of the moaning. She's so much easier to be around if she's not thirsty or hungry.

Have you tried posting in the Preteens Section as well @Tereo. You might get some tips in there Smile

Tereo · 20/08/2021 10:01

Ah thanks will do!

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