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Weird stuff 4 yr old is saying?

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sorrysaywhatnow · 14/08/2021 21:01

So, a few things he's said in the last couple of days...
Apparently he fell in love with me the day he was born, and did I love him straight away too?
He 'chose' me and his father to be his parents above all the other parents, and he chose this house because it/we looked nice.
Why did he have to die, and is it going to happen again?
I mean, I don't even know what to say at this point! He doesn't normally say things like this, and I've not experienced a child saying anything similar. Please tell me this is a normal phase?!

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Bombleton · 14/08/2021 21:07

This is so interesting! I've read about stuff like this before...like instead of life after death ...its life before birth. I don't know if its just a phase. The reason I read about jt online was because I remember having similar feelings when I was younger. It was around the same age. Maybe it is just a phase xxx

sorrysaywhatnow · 14/08/2021 21:12

It is interesting! I just don't really know what I should say or how I should respond. I'm trying to play it down without discounting it or him,but also I want to ask questions.....lots and lots of questions!

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Opalfeet · 14/08/2021 23:43

Im intrigued.

I think if ask Qs. I mean I play along with him when he says his bedroom is on fire and we have to stay on the mates to stop getting burnt

Opalfeet · 14/08/2021 23:43

I'd not if

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