My daughter is 15 and she's driving me to a breakdown,she never listens to me,she argues with her younger sister (9) she back chats,slams doors says we don't love her like we love her younger sister,she has zero hobbies I've tried to get her intrested in sports activities but she doesn't want to do anything.she is extremely lazy,her hygiene is dreadful she only changes her underwear like twice a week,we try and do things with her like family walks she moans and refuses to go out,when it's just me and her at home she's rude to tells me she hates me wishes she was adopted and we have a toxic family,my husband and I don't know what to do,I've been to the doctors 3 times but all we've got was counselling which didiant work.we are extremely fortunate as we get to go on nice holidays 2-3 times a year have a takeaway every weekend,the girls have their own bedrooms with all the gadgets but she doesn't seem grateful she says that's what she would expect to be taken on holiday,she's extremely selfish and only thinks of herself and not others.