DD has always been the most fun, lovely and laid back girl. Recently she has developed an attitude, back chat/answering back, pulling faces at us and calling us stupid, not doing as she is asked etc. She has started sneaking treats into her bedroom despite the fact she is allowed treats etc in moderation and they have never been something that she can’t have access to.
She also has little respect for toys, drawing on barbies, cutting things up, pouring out bottles of soap etc to make creations in the bathroom, all of which is new behaviour.
We have never tolerated her speaking to us in such a way and started by removing her tablet, it got better for a while then it got worse again. So then we removed her favourite toys, bedtime stories went too shortly after and early to bed etc. We’ve spoken to her about the taking food and she says she sorry and doesn’t know why then does it again the next day. We are running out of things we can do to show her that it isn’t ok and none of it seems to phase her. What else can we do. I feel like I can’t trust her to be left alone for any time at all as she has become sneaky.