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hmm, how to put it? sexual curiosity in 7 yo girls?

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j20baby · 23/09/2007 20:38

bfs daughter has been known to rub herself but my dd has not done it up until now, bfs daughter seems to do it in private, my dd doesn't seem too shy about it! she got a vibrating pen off her grandma, and showed me how it tickles if you put it on your tummy, she then put it on her 'front bum' and said it tickled and was nice.

how do i approach it without making her feel like its dirty whilst not really wanting to see her do it?!

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fryalot · 23/09/2007 20:44

dunno

You could always just wait till she starts again and say "most of us go go the bathroom or our bedroom to do stuff like that"

(just bumping for you btw.... how's the labour getting on?)

j20baby · 23/09/2007 20:45

thanks squonk.

will email you

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lulumama · 23/09/2007 20:45

just tell her that , yes it feels nice, but that sort of thing is for private time....

are you in labour ?!?!?!

fryalot · 23/09/2007 20:46

might have known the word "labour" would get everyone rushing to this thread

lulumama · 23/09/2007 20:47

not everyone, just meeeeeee!!

FrannyandZooey · 23/09/2007 20:47

Yes just say something like "yes it feels nice to touch yourself there doesn't it? It's fine to do that, but it's something private, so save it for when you are in your room on your own."

j20baby · 23/09/2007 20:48

thanks lula, thats what i thought, tell her to sod off to her room to do it!

nope not that i know of! yet

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kitsandbits · 23/09/2007 20:48

awww are you in labour???

j20baby · 23/09/2007 20:48

thanks too F+Z

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KaySamuels · 23/09/2007 20:48

Hi J20 - hope you are ok, keep us posted won't you!? If you need anything just holler.
x

Re dd I second the bathroom/bedroom lin next time!

j20baby · 23/09/2007 20:49

no

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KaySamuels · 23/09/2007 20:49

aah ds distracted me whilst typing, see you not started off yet!

fryalot · 23/09/2007 20:50

sorry - twas just squonky having a bit of fun. J20 is NOT in labour (well, she might be, but if she is she hasn't told me) She's just quite due

sorry J20

j20baby · 23/09/2007 20:50

thanks kay.

ooh i wish i was in labour the amount of people that have come on my thread, i bet when i do you'll all be off having real lives!

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lulumama · 23/09/2007 20:50

as you were, ladies ....

j20baby · 23/09/2007 20:54

naughty Squonk!
saying that, my friend selfishly went on hol today and text me to say he was getting on the plane, so i text back saying 'in labour' ha! that'll teach the selfish git to go on holiday across my due date!

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fryalot · 23/09/2007 20:56

am going to switch puter off and spend some time with my family....

Will get email in the morning, J20 - if you want me before then, text me.

j20baby · 23/09/2007 20:57

oh how boring!

ok, am off to bed now anyway

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