bfs daughter has been known to rub herself but my dd has not done it up until now, bfs daughter seems to do it in private, my dd doesn't seem too shy about it! she got a vibrating pen off her grandma, and showed me how it tickles if you put it on your tummy, she then put it on her 'front bum' and said it tickled and was nice.
how do i approach it without making her feel like its dirty whilst not really wanting to see her do it?!