Hi, I'm new here... U couldn't find anything that answers my question so I hope somebody has some ideas that could help me... My nearly 4 month old son often (if not always) has a meltdown and ends up screaming when I play with him. He spits up a lot so I feed him, keep him upright for 20 mins to reduce vomiting, change his nappy (which he usually enjoys) then I play with him, either in a mat or I show and give him toys and talk to him. Sometimes u gently encourage him to roll into his side. He seems like he is interested and enjoys himself but very quickly (5-10 minutes or so) he starts fussing and when I pick him up to comfort him he just loses it and does purple faced crying, thrashing around and takes forever to calm down, then he usually falls asleep. Yesterday I was feeling so down that I asked my husband to look after him and he just out him down in different places and ds chewed in different toys and babbled and then he seemed more relaxed. I feel like he doesn't like playing with me at all and is so much calmer around my husband, I have no idea what I'm doing wrong :(