DD was born at 35+1, good weight of 5lb 4oz but dropped to 4lb 4oz and had to have major bowel surgery and spent 3 weeks in NICU. Shes 10 weeks now and around 9lb (getting her weighed this week) but shes still not smiling. She looks amused by certain things and if she knows shes having a shower she gets excited and can see her eyes sparkling. She still sleeps ALOT, is probably awake couple of hours over the course of the day, tops. She copies us, tongue out etc, makes a few coo-y noises, will look at us and likes looking at lights/walls/pictures etc. When she is awake, we talk to her, sing songs and interact as much as we can when she is awake. She does massive great big grins in her sleep and does an amused/ half smile look. I know shes likely to be behind and i was worrying a few weeks ago but family and DP all talked me down and said shes fine. Now my mums back tracked, said DD looked blank all the time and maybe i should talk to HV. Im upset by this and panicking again😔