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Two year review height percentile - worried

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bluebabydinosaur · 29/11/2019 09:23

My son son who is two years and three months had his two year development review yesterday. All was fine except for his height. He was tracking between the 50th and 75th percentile pre two years which I was delighted with but now he’s dropped right down to the 25th percentile for height. I was shocked and mentioned it to the HV but she said not to worry. He is between the 75th and 91st percentile for weight but is not fat or even podgy but she says I needed to keep an eye on his weight. This is incredibly shallow but I had in my head that my son was going to be tall and now it turns out he is going to be short. I can’t voice my concerns with any friends or acquaintances because I am aware how awful that sounds. He is healthy and happy which I know is the main thing. My question is really, is this a normal feeling for a mother? I just want the best for him. Why do I feel like this? Do the height percentiles tend to be correct when they get to two or could he get back up to the higher percentiles again? I’m feeling very ashamed to feel like this but it’s how I feel and I can’t help it. Any words of advice or criticism would be really welcome. I feel very alone and guilty for feeling like this.

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AladdinMum · 29/11/2019 14:45

Anywhere in the percentile tables from 0-100 is considered 'normal range' (i.e. 50 being the average height) and hence not concerning, it will not be concerning to a health visitor that your son has dropped from between 50-75 to 25, it just means that he is a few centimeters shorter than average - it is not unusual for toddlers as they grow up to drop or move up percentiles.

Harrysmummy246 · 29/11/2019 20:06

Chances are he's probably about to shoot upwards. They don't grow at a constant rate.

DS has barely put on weight since he was two but has grown 9 cm taller this year (now 2.5)

youareasyoungasyoufeel · 29/11/2019 20:09

My husbands mum was once told that hubby wouldn't grow beyond 5"7 - he's now 6"2. So lots can change I wouldn't worry

FTMF30 · 30/11/2019 10:46

25 centile really is no big deal. However at two years old, it's still likely his height wasnt taken correctly. Or even as a baby, it coukd gave been taken incorrectly (as in, he could have been measured a couple of cm longer than he really was).

At young ages, just a couple of cms can make a huge difference in centiles, so I wouldn't worry too much.

His height at 2years old is also very little indication of how tall he'll be when he's older.

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