Dramatic title, I know!!! So today my nearly 4 year old told me he wants to kill me and daddy. I told him that would mean we would be dead and he said yeah and then I can be on my own. It was like a stab to the heart. I know kids say weird shit but this worried me. He can be lovely sometimes but quite often he can be horrible. He is extremely defiant, hits, cries and tells us he doesn't like us. This is always out of sight of other people and they are shocked when I tell them because around others and in school he is an angel. Anyway, we came home, he had his tea and was sent straight to bed. Anyone got any advice on how to deal with this behaviour or been through this before. Genuinely worried my child is a psychopath eeeek.