When I say inappropriately, I mean when a dear friend has bothered to take us out for dinner and the DD's are allowed to stay up late and come with us .
And also just at home when we refuse to take them to the park or out on the bikes because we have other things to do.
It's driving me and DH mad. Depending on what mood I am in my reaction has ranged from a very indifferent "Oh well, it's good to be bored, you can't be entertained all the time" to "How dare you be so rude, how can you possibly be bored ..... blah blah".
Anyone else going through this "phase". Yet another "phase" .