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Do toddlers masturbate?

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Cheeseycheese · 24/05/2007 18:19

I know a couple of kids, one a boy, the other a girl, both have just turned 3, who do this very weird looking thing. It's hard to explain but I think if any of you have seen it you'll know exactly what I mean. They're lying down on the floor or a sofa, facing down, both hands tucked down in the croach area, but outside the nappy/clothes, and they kind of 'wriggle', make these funny up and down movements. What exactly is going on???

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beansprout · 24/05/2007 18:20

It's not really a sexual thing at that age but they can find it comforting. Not a big deal, but a time and a place.

Cheeseycheese · 25/05/2007 17:59

So what do you do if they're doing it CONSTANTLY?

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Fubsy · 25/05/2007 19:44

Give them sopmething more interesting to do!

loujay · 25/05/2007 19:47

When my DD started doing this it seemed to happen all the time because it was a "new thing".
We explained that it was OK to do but that if she wanted to do it she had to be on her own and preferably in her bedroom (she used to use it as a comforter to get her to sleep)

harpsichordcarrier · 25/05/2007 19:52

my dd2 was wriggling around in the sandpit yesterday and a granny nearby said oh look she's swimming
yeah, kinda

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