Hi, I have a 3 and a 5 year old who share a room. Bedtime is such a chore. They mess around so much. Tonight I've been up already 5 times as they are out of bed, in each other's beds, rearranging furniture etc. This is every single night and I waste around an hour, at least, every night going up and down stairs, bringing a child to sit in the dark kitchen for 2 minutes etc to try to reboot them.
What should I be doing? DH and I have never had a night out together since we've had children as we just don't feel we can inflict this ridiculousness on anyone else.
Suggestions please...