My partners little girl is 5 nearly 6 and is absolutely awful at listening to anything we say, we have to repeat ourselves a million times before she even begins to think about doing what we've asked her to do, the only way she does what we ask straight away is if he shouts at her which we hate doing! She doesn't even listen when we tell her to stay with us in a busy supermarket, she runs off and we have to run after her so nothing happens to her, she sometimes turns to look at us if we shout for her to come back but then continues to run off! She's constantly putting none food items in her mouth too, even though we tell her time and time again not to and that she might choke if she puts things she's not suppose to in her mouth, we've bought her a teething necklace thing for her to chew on as we thought as long as she has something safe to put in her mouth then she can still chew but it'll Ben safe, but she's not really used it, she prefers putting tiny things in her mouth. We've tried so many things to get her to listen to us but she just doesn't, it's getting such hard work now, especially as we need her to start being a bit more independent as we have 2 little ones under 2, what can we do?? Tia