DS1 is nearly 7 and has had major problems accepting DS2 since he was born 3 years ago. He has always been very aggressive and nasty towards him, to the point where they can't be left alone for a second, and jealous of any time DS2 spends with me. I left OH shortly after DS2 was born which may be the cause.
After a long time and lots of effort I have finally got DS1 some counselling through CAMHS. His counsellor just told me that this morning he told her that I push him and punch him in the stomach when I am cross, and that when we were only holiday once his dad and I hurt him and sat on his legs and he had to go in an ambulance. All of this is totally made up!!!
The counsellor has to report this to Social Services - now what??? I am so upset and worried. I have NEVER hit my kids and don't agree with smacking. I have physically pulled them apart from each other to stop them hurting each other, and smacked them both on the hand once a few months ago when I had tried everything, and then felt like the worst person in the world :(
Has this happened to anyone else? This has literally just happened. I'm at work, my head is spinning and I feel sick.
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6yo DS lying that I hit him.
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Prawncat · 08/03/2017 14:21
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