Hello - my DS1 has just started doing full days at school and already twice this week has come home with poo in his pants because he won't go at school. When he goes at home I try and encourage him to wipe his own bottom but he stills wants me to "inspect" it (a word given by Grandma for this situation!). I think the problem is that he doesn't want to be sitting on the toilet at school shouting for the teacher - any advice?