My 20mo DS has (finally) started toddling around in a major way but at the same time is waking up crying every night and refusing to go back to sleep. He was v settled before and it has come as a bit of a shock to the system, particularly as I am 15 weeks pregnant and TIRED!! Please come someone reassure me that this is just a phase and is perfectly normal. We have tried leaving him to settle himself, cuddles, milk, changing nappy and getting up from a while but he cries hysterically every time we put him back into his cot. Any useful tips/sympathy would be gratefully received!