My Dd is 2.5 year old. She is not yet potty trained ( refuses to sit on potty !) she has started doing small poos all day long, Yesterday I changed her nappy over 10 times! I don't know how to stop her doing it . I have explained to her that she is a big girl and needs to do a 'big poo', she said that she 'cant' . She is more than physically capable of this And has done in the past. I think she a number of phobias. the first the action of being changed , she hates it, and will fib if I ask her if she needs a change. Its like a wrestling match he get her changed . Also she will soil in the night and whilst she has nights that she will call for a change , others she won't and this will result in a very sore bottom the next morning. The second is that whilst currently She isn't constipated She has been one time in the past and pooing was very painful for her. I don't know how to get her passed this . Does anyone have experience of this or any advice on what to do going forward ?