my usually very gentle sensitive ds1 (4 years) has started to chase and scare our cat. he use to ignore her, though since moving house a neighbours child we invited round took to chasing and scaring her and my ds1 has copied her. we say a short sharp 'stop - she is very old - you can stroke her'. but her influence on him has taken hold (we no longer invite her round - impossible to talk to her mother who has mental problems).this is so sad for us as this just wasn't in his nature before
any advice please......?