I had my children young-ish when I was 24/25 ( I am now 50 and a lot of my contemporaries have young kids) and brought them up to be respectful and considerate. What I want to know is why are some modern parents so hideously selfish where their kids are concerned? Fair enough run your own house like a chimps tea party but when you go to an expensive hotel or restaurant with your chimps keep them quiet and well behaved out of consideration for other guests.