My 2 year old is extremely bossy, not so much with me and dp, I'd say that he's actually quite an "easy" toddler in as much as if he's cross about something he's easily distracted so tantrums are rare and short when they do happen.
He is extremely friendly, says hello to everyone we walk passed in the street, he always finds children to play with at the park, he will go up to other children and say hi, come play on the roundabout with me! He will then say not too fast/sit down/not there sit here/wait there and so on, he's quite friendly about saying these things and he's quite charming so the other kids just tend to do what he says, but what should I do? Just let them work it out between them or step in and tell him not to be so bossy?