Nasty 2.5 year old

[D1986]

Hi
Has anyone had the same situation , my son is 2.5 and he's very shy sensative abs gentle and loving but I'm finding when his dad is around he's a different child, he starts to be nasty to be and I can't do anything for him Daddy got to do it all. I feel really useless as he's my world and I want to do everything for him but I can't even change his bum, make him dinner or drinks he cries and says daddy do it.
I work so not sure weather this has something to do with it

Sorry for the typing issues

I really doubt that you working has anything to do with it so please don't beat yourself up about that.

Favouring one parent is a phase all children go through - it'll be Daddy for a few weeks, then Daddy will mean nothing to him and it'll be all about Mum. I don't know why this happens, but all 4 of my DC have done this - it's heartbreaking at the time, but it is really common. It passes :).

Don't take it personally - my dd is the same!

Thanks all so glad it's not just mine