Ok so I did a thread about feeling a bit at the end of my tether with ds.
Basically I don't like shouting cause I don't find it achieves anything. I only ever shout cause I've lost it, not because i find it effective. I don't want to do naughty steps or corners, time outs etc. I just want to be able to talk to my children and keep my cool. I respect that everyone has different styles but I have tried the naughty step, for example, a few times and it just didn't suit me iyswim.
Can anyone with similar views recommend any good books??