my 14 year old boy answering teacher

[lilli30101968]

My 14 year old boy answer teacher ia m very choc and ashamed because never answer me back cant even face teacher . What to do becoming a bit agressif with little sister any suggeestions ?

How have you heard about it? If he's telling you for laughs that's one thing, if school have reported it to you, that's more serious. He's unlikely to be the only one in the class backchatting and I wouldn't worry about it in terms of respect/ defiance. I think you're perhaps not English? If he's disrupting his learning and class that is worrying. As is the aggression to his sister- do you mean physical aggression? Is it teasing or bullying or playful? What does she feel?

yes teacher call me to tell me I am a bit concern, I am not English the way I have been brought up we respect olders never answer back. he is annoyed by sister always talking to her in a aggressif way.
In my school year we were scared of teachers but I think here childrens has too much right. Well hope its a phase hormonal !

I can't offer any advice really, as my own is the same

I'd suggest posting again though in the Secondary topic, here:

www.mumsnet.com/Talk/secondary

Thank you, i am just praying that its a phase I have taken phone and playstation until he realise that it was inapropriate to answer teacher.