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ds is no fun anymore...

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lemondriz · 15/07/2014 06:53

Ds is 3.8 yrs he has always been the most fun easy going well behaved little boy, funny well mannered.... My little friend!

But now he has started to.miss behave, he moans and wines all the time, every time we try and do something fun together he ruins it by becoming difficult or not listening to me... He gets so over excited when we are around other people he won't stop talking and is so hyper it's like he is out of control and he can't calm down he is becoming quite spiteful to dd he will take her toys away tell her to go away or deliberately hurt her on the sly ...

I should probably mention that a couple of months ago I had a small break down after having dd 9 months but it only.lasted a couple of months and I seeked help straight away his behaviour became bad during this time but was back to normal once we talked it through with him and I got back to normal but now has become bad again.

I don't know how I should b dealing with it if I'm making it worse by telling him off..

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Suddengeekgirl · 15/07/2014 08:28

Is he at preschool? It could be as simple as ring worn out and ready for the summer holidays. My ds was normally very chilled but at the end of term at preschool (and now at school) he would become a PITA!

If that's it then it'll pass once he gets some time to recover.

If you don't think that's it then I would tackle the behaviour exactly the same way you did last time it happened.
Did you have any support from HV etc last time? Could you get back in touch with them?

Fwiw 3yo are exhausting, I often find myself telling dd to just stop being 3! Blush :)

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