i have a 13 month old girl she is very happy and smiley most of the time but i have problems putting her to sleep she would go down fine until she got to around 9 months then she just refused to sleep i found the only way to get her to sleep would be to hold her while giving her a bottle then when she has finished it she starts to fall asleep the i give her a comfort blanket and put her down in the cot when she nodds off this some times works and sometimes she just wriggles free so i put her in the cot but she wont sleep this can go on for ages any ideas