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Why do I feel guilty?????????

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Nemo1977 · 02/08/2006 19:10

Ds[2.9yrs] been real swine most of the day. Really pushing the boundaries etc and was at end of my teether. At tea time he threw his tea around the table and was generally very naughty. Got to point where I told him if he didnt behave he would go to bed without his cup of milk[ he has never been without milk as it is his big thing for going to bed] Anyway he then threw a sausage covered in spaghetti sauce at the wall so I took him upstairs put him into bed[this was at 6.30pm] and left him there with a cup of water. He was begging for his milk but I didnt give it as otherwise it would be going back on what I said. I know it wont kill him to have not had it for one night but I feel really guilty.

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biglips · 02/08/2006 19:12

nwmo - dont feel guilty as he gotta learn - like mine too!!

biglips · 02/08/2006 19:12

sorry NEMO !!

Nemo1977 · 02/08/2006 19:21

thanks biglips..know he has to learn..just feel i took away teh wrong thing..never mind cant do anything about it and his behaviour chart was not working today.

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biglips · 02/08/2006 19:24

if you give in.. he will do it over and over again, so you've done well tonite but it IS very hard. Is he doing it for attention probably?

Nemo1977 · 02/08/2006 19:26

attention, frustration and being over tired. He is find it more and more difficult with the speech problems so getting more peeved. Plus of course cos I have to feed DD most of her meal he is annoyed.

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biglips · 02/08/2006 20:40

Hmmm! possibly its the frustration as he cannot pronouce his words properly yet and you not understanding he saying maybe? as my mum said that i was like and very very frustrated as i was trying saying summat but people couldnt understand me and i threw a tantrum !! mum forgave me of course! thats why i love her

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