Just had a very tricky 45 mins with DD, trying to get her to choose socks and shoes, we went through every pair she owns and none were right, she was moaning and whining and being so difficult, I kept really calm but then lost my temper at her, then had to take her down to school and drop her off all red eyed and upset. I now feel awful and so guilty and worried about her being all upset and in school on her own. feeling very sad about it all now 