Ok so I know this is one of those posts where I am seriously hoping I will be told I'm being an over-concerned idiot. But I honestly don't know whether I am worrying over nothing, or if my DS needs to be checked out. I am a single mum with no adult man I could ask, I went to a girls school and have only got sisters. In short, I know naff all about 'normal' willies. Especially not toddler ones.
So my question is, how much variation is there/what's normal? My DS1 (age 3.5) seems to be very much on the dinky side compared to the peers I have (unintentionally) clocked recently. Noticeably so. I would say when he's standing up you can see about 1cm of shaft and the head of his willy, plus a lot of foreskin. If you push back the fat pad there's quite a bit more in there but still only around 3.5 - 4cm in total (I'm not measuring him with a ruler or anything, it's guesswork really, but as a reasonable guestimate...) He's also rather slim.
Anyway, before I go on and on about it... I just want to know really, would that worry you? Should I be asking a GP to check him out? Or is this completely normal and I should just stop worrying about his bits and pieces. I just did a quick google search and realised that there are a couple of conditions (buried penis) that sound possible and others (micro penis) that sound awful and maybe it's better to have him checked out now, while he's young enough to hopefully not care or remember. And maybe google is just about the worst thing for any parent to consult, ever. I don't know.
Well, as my nc suggests, I feel like a silly, worried mum and I just need reassuring or to be nudged in the direction of the GP if necessary. TIA