To put everyones minds at rest....i searched charity shops on saturday....found a ladies green satin top which belted makes a great 'pixie' tunic- i am cutting points into the hem and edging with glitter glue- which will stop it fraying!(and allow him the 'sparkles' he wants! I found a ladies strappy bustier top which is lkie a massive sequined butterfly (blue/green) which i need to wire then fix on to the tunic as wings. Got green girls tights and a pair of sequined 'ballet' pumps (which i will fix massive buckles on the top to look a bit more masculine)
Basically he is really happy and after he'd tried it all on (he wore the tights to bed!) he told me to give back the pink stuff as he doesn't need it!