We are also having problems with our 3 year old. When she was little she would eat almost anything. Now we are down to just sausages, fish fingers, potato shapes/ chips. Peas, sometimes ravioli and strawberries.
My wife and I cook food ourselves but she refuses to even just try it. We have tried everything from ignoring it to bribery. We are just so sick and tired of having to prepare different meals. If she just tried it and decided she didnt like it that would be ok. But she just wont put it in her mouth.
It is really getting to us now.