I had no choice but to go on a 3 week training course with work... the first week they were with dad, 2nd week with my mom at sis in laws, third week I home but then had to go away for another week.... ive got a three and a half year old and 20month old.before I went 20month old was fine, happy and loved his cot... since coming back he is not the same... he don't like me leaving him in a room, he stands at my legs crying as I wash up, he cries when I go to my slimming class and worst of all now he won't sleep in his cot... he screams constant til I give up and bring him to our bed....
it doesn't help that the eldest still cosleeps, he won't sleep in his own bed at all... I not got a clue where to start with that!!
so now there are 4 in a bed :-( its not good for us and I'm tired leaving me ratty at work coming back not being able to do dinner without dd at my feet.... any advice would be