can anyone recommend a book I can read to guide me on the best way to help my emotional 5, nearly 6, year old daughter. I followed Gina Ford when both my children were babies but now am struggling with the arguing, wanting & trying to behave like an adult one minute, crying over nothing & wanting to be treated like a baby the next minute. Don't get me started on the lack of paitents & the shouting at me & her dad for no reason. I'm exhausted but really want to understand her emotional world - HELP