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Really clingy 2.9 year old

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mollysmum82 · 27/04/2012 14:42

DD is approaching 3 and although its early days I'm so worried about sending her to school. Although she chats happily and confidently to adults and older children when I'm there, the second I leave she is beside herself with tears. During a play date for example I can't go and make our guest a cup of tea without taking her with me. I don't mind this at all but I do worry about how she will cope when she has to be left. And even when I'm there with her she doesn't seem to like children of her own age - she won't go on a slide at soft play or in a ball pool for example if there's another child there. I love her so much and can't bear to ever see her upset. DH isn't worried at all and thinks sending her to preschool/school will really help her socially. Whereas I worry it will traumatise her! I'd love to know other's experiences, thanks so much.

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AbigailAdams · 27/04/2012 16:15

I agree with your DH. Don't worry about it. DS1 is very clingy to DH but I recently took for a week up to my parents, by myself. He came back much better. She'll just need a bit of confidence, that's all.and preschool staff will be used to that.

simperingsally · 27/04/2012 16:19

your Dh is right. Dd is nearly 3 too and is very clingy with me. but i take her to cresh once a week while i do volunteering and she has improved alot.
some of the other more experienced kids will make her play with them.. well thats what its like with mine.

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