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5yo ignoring me.

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WhoseGotMyEyebrows · 11/09/2011 08:31

Does anyone else find that their dcs just ignore them?

I might be helping her put socks on for example and will say "come here" and she just goes the other way.

Or I will ask her to tidy up and she acts likeshe hasn't heard me, so I say again and stil nothing so I end up shouting!

This makes me so mad!

BTW she can hear when I am offering chocolate so don't think it's an actual ear problem.

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iwasyoungonce · 11/09/2011 08:34

Yep, my 5yo DD does this too. It's infuriating, isn't it? I HATE shouting, but I don't know how else to deal with it.

WhoseGotMyEyebrows · 11/09/2011 08:44

It makes me SO mad, hits a sore point for me I think.

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iwasyoungonce · 11/09/2011 21:39

Me too. Sends me into a boiling rage sometimes.

I'm sure, like everything else, it'll pass eventually. I think when she does it she is just oblivious, and thinking of other things. So I don't think she is being wilfully naughty/ disrespectful - but that is how I take it. Which isn't good.

Sometimes I think I'm a really shit mum. I shout at DD for lots of things that she probably can't help. :(

I love her so much, and am a very good mum in lots of ways too! :)

An0therName · 11/09/2011 21:43

yup my 5 yo does this too - and the shouting happens here too!

Sleepglorioussleep · 11/09/2011 21:56

Our five year old dd just the same. We always say excuse me before anything directed at her and it seems to help focus her attention...sometimes!

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