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Custody Battle

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StressedoutZoe · 29/08/2011 17:44

At the begining of may my ex husband refused to bring my son home from an access vist, I have not seen my son since june15 when I took him out of school. I am back 7 to to court, my ex now saying my lad has anxity issues and he said he want to kill me. He was fine when i took him from school and before he went.

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Pamplemoussse · 29/08/2011 17:56

which country are you in, Zoe?

StressedoutZoe · 29/08/2011 17:59

England x

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Daisy1986 · 29/08/2011 22:03

Was your access all ready part of a contact order? If it was he should have returned him and you could go for emergency hearing for him to be returned.

Ignore what your ex says ofcourse you child has anxiety issues all children of divorce do particularly when visits arent being followed properly. Its astressful situation for everyone.

StressedoutZoe · 30/08/2011 15:05

I split from my ex when my son was 2, everything has been amicable up until now. Unfortunatly my ex has pr as well, thats why we couldn't get an emergency order ( the pr thing is anew law, as we never went to court when we divorced over custody cos he couldn't be arsed with seeing my son)

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StressedoutZoe · 30/08/2011 15:06

all my ex says is he doesn't want to see me or live with me

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poptartpoptart · 30/08/2011 22:03

I am not an expert but I don't think your ex can legally do this at all. He cannot stop you seeing your son. Get yourself a solicitor asap or even call the police and tell them that your ex is refusing you access to your son - sometimes it can be classed as kidnap if he won't allow you to even see him. Good luck.

StressedoutZoe · 31/08/2011 17:24

Got a solicitor & a barrister. Because ds is 10 he has a voice in court, but it feels like his dad is poisining him against me. I phoned the police when it first started but they spoke to him in front of his dad. just disstressing. I'm back in court in just over 2 weeks for the third time!

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