My 4 year old girl is extremely shy. She's been at Nursery 5 mornings a week since Easter 2010, but still hasn't spoken to her teacher or any of the other kids. She enjoys going, but seems to clam up as soon as we enter the school gates. At home, she's chatty and loves bossing her little brother around. I was very shy as a child too, so I know she can't help it 'cos it's in her genes! Any advice folks?