We have been having never ending arguments about just about everything and yesterday after long discussions my mum gave her a teddy bear if she will give away someof her old ones.
Well I set a target of keeping 20 (which is quite reasonable) and without any arguments she has sorted out 22 for charity and 20 for childminding
I have given in and allowed her to keep 30 (which is a fair swop for the 42 she has got rid of)
Not bad - no arguements - no tears - no hassle
deep sigh of relief