DS2 is now 13.5 months old. When he was born DS1 backed off from DH and myself. Withdrew his kisses and cuddles and just hated DS2. It's been a truely horrid first year for DS2 .
But, Da Daahhhh. Over the last 3 weeks or so DS1 has decided that little brother can be fun after all. He plays with him (reasonably nicely), they laugh together most of the time now. But, what's really fantastic for me is that he now wants his pre-bed cuddles again. He'll kiss us again, give us a hug and is generally just a affectionate towards us as he was before DS2 arrived.
So for all of you out there who are having probs with young siblings - it will get better!!