I know this sounds really strange thing to ask but all my friend have boys. Ive got a 2 and half yr old andafter her bath last night, her bits seemed very open and more adult like. They've always been all closed in but ther was a proper vaginal opening there - and it was open!! This is normal isnt it, cos all manner of horrible thoughts went thru my head??? She usually has family care only whilst at work but has been at nursery and a child minder recently. Reassurance needed.