real attitude at 2.5 years old!

[lilybird]

dd never wakes up in a good mood, she won't go to dh if i'm there,she wants me all the time. it's got to the point that she is so horrible to dh that he is losing interest in her. she told him to go away this morning,all he wanted to do was take her downstairs to watch tv,so i could have a little lie in. i took her to nursery and she's all sweetness. ggrrrhhhh!!

ds is the same - dh accuses me of 'muscling in' on his time with ds. But it used to be dh job to bath and put ds to bed. Now ds cries for me when he comes out of his bath and I need to be there to calm him down and put him to bed.
I'm sure it's just a phase. Can dh take dd out on a trip just the 2 of them - maybe only a couple of hours to the park/swimming.
My ds seems to go back to liking daddy - when they've been for a little outing in the car together.

i told her not to say that,your being a very naughty girl and asked to go and say sorry to him.but she wouldn't. she's so stubborn.

I can sympathise with you, dh went into ds1's room this morning to get him up and his first words were "not you", which is so hurtful. We both told him off and said he made dad feel really sad and to say sorry. I think I'm going to try leaving them alone together to sort it out themselves. good luck with whatever you try