peeing when does not want to do something

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before was when was being disciplined but now since few days is when not keen on doing something and I am telling him/coercing him...what do i do?

seek a docs help or leave it at that?

anyone else have that!

today had held his hand and was saying thought he needed to tryu and have a poo

he will not do poos in potty/toilet so thought he needed one

he peed there and then in room

how old is he?
what do mean by disciplined? could he be scared?

disciplone has always been after 10 warnings to go upstdairs and calm down and can join me when stopped screaming/whinging etc

10 warnings at 3 is too many. He will have lost interest in the original misdemeanour by then and behaviour will spiral downwards with frustration on all sides. One, maybe two, warning ,one punishment (ie timeout for 3 mins) he says sorry (but needs to have udenrstood what for) then you move on to another activity. The peeing may well be to divert your attention. tbh he sounds as if he hasnlt got full control yet , and many 3 years olds don't have or relapse.