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Is this a bit mean as a punishment/threat?

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BigAngryRedThing · 14/08/2010 19:49

Ok...so I'll set the scene...

DC (aged 4) refusing to get ready for bed. Lying on floor, won't get up, just shaking head.

Parent: "If you don't get ready now you will not be taking [comfort teddy] to bed with you"

(Comfort teddy since birth, sleeps with it every night)

It was the first thing that popped into my head to just get him into bed ASAP, had a nightmare day and DC2 playing up also. Immediately he changed his tune, and was ready and in bed quicker than ever.

I feel mean now though...is threating to confiscate a comforter OTT?

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Gay40 · 15/08/2010 21:06

I don't threaten, I never have. I've offered options, explaining cause and effect. Or as well as it can be explained to a little one.

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