for a girl i don't want anything too cutesy, don't want a name that seems to brag about being good looking or cute.
for a girl:
audrey
marie
matilda
helena
emmeline
martha
erica
nina
clara
vivien
chrissie
may
for a boy:
my criteria for this is, does he sound like a sissy or a fool? so far i have:
ted
henry
george
bruce
richard
thomas
bill
vincent
charlie
elliott
james
with some more "exotic" middle name choices: virgil, leland, seymour, sylvan